Suicide Bombers
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They are children born to Death, their little lives inextricably tied to. They’ve walked into this world carrying its burden on their tiny shoulders, the choice to live never theirs. Borrowed for a while, loaned from time itself, their fate is sealed even before their lives begin. And back and forth they rock to the litany of Koranic verses…and with it the clock ticks and the minutes slip by. In between the outstretched hands of their victims, their own lives fall through: shadowy, insignificant, short-lived... violence and horror their only legacy.
TOOLS IN DANGEROUS HANDS:
They're little child bombers being prepared to fight holy jihad - a war in which they’re forced central stage…. like puppets held by strings from above, or circus animals doing their master’s bidding. Or are they just sorry heroes in a last tragic performance doomed to fail?
For in reality, suicide bombers are only the tools - mere pawns meant to self-destruct - while the real masterminds walk away unscathed, hidden behind the curtains... both creators and audience of this bloody tragedy.
SUICIDE MATERIAL:
Like mice following death’s pied piper, these young bombers are drawn from all kinds of sources: Some abducted on their way to school, others bought for a generous compensation from parents too poor and ignorant to support them. The going price for them is around $7,000 to $14,000 depending on how urgently they’re required for the ‘mission’.
Once sold off, there’s no going back. Parents themselves seal their doom with blessings - since they not only bring prosperity to a starving household crowded with siblings, but also ‘honor’ to the family name. So what if one mouth was sacrificed to feed half a dozen others, and all in the name of god…. who are they to questions His will?!
Many child bombers are already maimed casualties of war: orphans, handicapped, refugees… with parents dead, or families blown up in attacks, homes burnt down or simply left behind by fleeing relatives. Mostly however, they are recruited from madrasas or religious schools where they are sent as children to be raised under a stringent religious routine.
From here, they are taken into camps where they’re trained for years either to be used as suicide bombers or soldiers in wars. Deprived of a normal home environment, proper schooling or female interaction, they grow up with a distorted view of the world. Above all, these vulnerable children, too young to understand, emotionally or physically bruised are the ideal material for molding into shape… to be used as fuel for their own funeral pyre!
BRAINWASHING IN TRAINING CAMPS:
In theory, indoctrination is a simple process: you take impressionable minds, erase their ethnic and racial identity and replace it with a newer one, glinting with religious fervor. You make them feel part of the muslim ummah - a sort of universal brotherhood or community in which they’re linked together in a common holy cause – not just their own, but that of millions of oppressed muslims all over the world. A noble aim.
Within the molten wax of their minds, you plant a wick burning with the fire of hatred and resentment. Just as soldiers fighting the war on terror fear ‘terrorists', you teach suicide bombers to hate ‘infidels' instead. It's only a different name after all.... for lives bled for a cause.
You then expose these individuals to graphic images of wars in Iraq, Palestine and Afghanistan - sometimes for days on end - casualties being tortured and killed, women and children suffering at the hands of the brutal 'enemy'. You assure them that in their newfound role, they’re no longer weak and helpless against their powerful opponents, but invincible masters of their own destiny, given a once in a lifetime chance to make a difference! The price - their very lives.
NOT SUICIDE BUT MARTYRDOM:
Meanwhile, Koranic sayings, taken out of context, are carefully used to strengthen hearts with the poison of revenge, disguised in the name of love of Islam. The rationale is the same: Suicide bombing is not an ordinary suicide; it is martyrdom in a holy war against an unjust enemy i.e. a fight for the sake of Allah to defend their faith - hence the greatest ‘triumph’ a muslim can achieve!
It thus offers a sort of cure, an answer to their emotional scars…. a retaliation against cruelty towards their own family…. as well as a way to restore honor to the entire muslim community. In short, a hero’s death. Except, you don't die, you become immortal!
HOPE OF PARADISE:
Yes, as children turn to teenagers, years of brainwashing plays havoc with their minds. Attackers are now lured in with rewards of afterlife: the bait of the 72 houris (pure virgins) and a heaven with rivers of flowing milk, exotic fruits and greenery is set dangling in front of them.
And in their sparse lifestyles and hormone driven bodies, never having known a woman’s presence let alone her touch, this literally becomes a driving force. Death is the final orgasmic release… the climax leading to the comforts of paradise... and they long to embrace it.
THE END OR THE BEGINNING?
And so the seeds of war are sewn in lives that are as barren and empty as a battlefield. Watered with hatred, fed with anger, the roots grow deeper…while the only light they ever know is that of a faraway land full of promises. In their desperately lonely lives, it’s the only thing they can cling to, the last straw to catch at as they fall spiraling headfirst towards their own death. One painful scream - that's what their lives are, but in their minds, a new beginning awaits them... and they welcome it with open arms.
* This hub has been inspired by children and young teenagers used as suicide bombers, esp. in war torn countries; it does not take into account the much more complicated psyche of adult bombers with seemingly normal lives - esp. those growing up in the west.
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The delicate tremor and balance between incursion and extremism leaves the taste of guilt on the population of both God fearers and those faithful to Ala...and it tastes like a cancerous growth with plenty to go around...
Yours truly...Bryan?
Brainwashing kids ... brutal, leaves me speachless.
Although the U.S. military does the same thing; some of the soldiers it recruits (even though they are over the age of eighteen) are still kids. In North America we are brainwashed through GI Joe movies, Wrestling and all sorts of other violent media programs which glorify violence and the use of force "to achieve" a greater good.
I just finished a really good book if you're interested in how kids are influenced by media in the United States. The book is called: "Consuming Kids, Protecting our Children from the Onslaught of Marketing and Advertising" by Susan Linn. Very good book!
Cheers for another good blog!
OMG- those poor babies. And that's exactly what they are! Since when is it okay to "breed" for the sake of making an army or submitting them to death. Is that the only use for our children? This topic is frightening and all to sad. Thanks for making it. And by the way, the blonde haired girl in the photo above made me cry. So much innocence in her eyes...poor thing.
Hi myownworld - I think you've produced a good essay, but I'm wondering about these photographs. Do you know their pedigree? Because there's something not quite right about them, if you look closely.
@ Origin: I coulnd't agree more my friend.... cheers for stopping by. You haven't been around much, hope all's going well with you. Take care x
@ Mentalist: great comment yes, and extremism in any form is definitely a poison spreading through the society. I hope moderate muslims never give in to it. Thank you for reading and commenting :)
@ Mr. Happy: Nice to see you. Yes, I know what you mean. Afterall, brain washing is one of the strongest tools used to sell any idea to people. Always, reminds me of Orwell's Animal Farm. Will check out the book you recommend too, sounds very interesting. Thank you for your insightful comment and take care :)
@ Paula: My sentiments exactly! It's all in their eyes, isn't it? The silent, confused unanswered questions.... Thank you for reading and feeling with me.
@ Para: To tell you the truth, my research is based more on my actual visit to some of the madrasas in pakistan, where unfortunately one isn't allowed to photograph so easily. The training camps are another story altogether... mostly very hard to access, let alone photograph. Hence, I relied on google for images. They are actually just a drop into the true reality - which, as I'm sure you know, is far uglier. Thank you for your comment, I'd gladly change any image you advise me to. Let me know. I value your opinion more than you know. :)
@myownworld - It's because I'm working a lot, then going to college next month for computer networking/web programming! I've been really busy lately. I stopped by to see what you've been up to! :)
lol @ Origin: Yes, it's a great move to invest more time in studies (I'm doing the same - my second Masters degree now!) but it's one of the best parts of my life at the moment. I'm sure you'll love it. Though juggling jobs and studies can be quite exhausting I know... (ask me, and now with Misha's wesbites that I moderate, there's not much time left for HP!) But I know you'll do well! Anyway, best of luck with things... and see you around :)
mow - you are such an amazing writer - you have that talent to take us reader to the places that you go "Within the molten wax of their minds"
Thank your for sharing this part of the world with us. It is scary and sad . .and so important to let other know about these things. Its a tough subject I am sure, but I hung on everyword, and almost did not want it to end, , but all your writings make me feel that way, I just cant wait till your NY best selller hits the shelves for I will be first on line for a signed copy!!!
Hello wave, great to see you and thank you for such kind words. It's strange but human suffering has a way of moving one...and questioning so many things in life. I don't know about writing a book (which I hope to write one day, yes) but I'd love to go traveling around the world...camera and note book in hand.. not to beautiful places, but to all the godforsaken ones.... and blog about people and voices that some of us may never see or hear. Crazy plan, no?
Anyway, thank you once again for words that are deeply appreciated, take care x
War is the biggest tragedy of human stupidity - there is no need for it, there is no need for such suffering, there is no need to misuse children on that horrible way.
So many times I am asking myself - why (some) parents have children on this world...just to (mis)use them for any cause in which they (allegedly) believe ? It is disgusting. It is also disgusting how part of humanity misuses the name of the (any) god to create new suffering for the others. In combination with strong sex drive which leads people big part of their lives - it is easy to create illusions in human mind which leads them into disasters.
Your Hub is great, as always, your understanding of problem and compassion is deep.
Question - have you find any way out from the nightmares of human reality?
Thumbs up, peace and love...
Yet another great hub. Disturbing and insightful as you so often are.
Wow a second Masters? Are you becoming masochistic in your old age?
Thank you for your insights myownworld.
During the Vietnam War children were known to visit American camps. They were given candy by the Americans and sent on their way. Unfortunately some of these children were given live hand grenades by a parent or guardian with the pin pulled and were told to grip it tightly in their little hands so it didn't explode. As soon as an American soldier asked what they had in their hand they would open up their hand and the grenade would go off. The child might not even know they were going to die with the soldier or soldiers.
Near the end of WW2 Hitler Youth and men too old to be in the regular army were formed into special combat units called wolfen. There job was to harass the soldiers invading Germany. One trick was to put a thin wire across a road where soldiers in jeeps were known to drive. The wire was set up between two trees and at neck height so that the soldier or soldiers driving into it unawares would be decapitated.
The internet means that Muslim children who feel uncomfortable in the Western country where their parents have settled them can be influenced to go fanatical over their religion and be a living weapon in a struggle that is more illusion and delusion than real. I saw a UK documentary on the psychology of this some months ago.
This is such an in depth look into this twisted world. It just kind of further shows how the leaders over there are nothing but cowards. Nothing defines being a true leader like strapping bombs childern and sending them into the battles that you started. It's just such a tragic waste of lifes. Give the little kids a chance to grow up and make their own decisions.
The thing I've never understood is the 72 virgins thing. To me nothing could be worse. I mean, can you imagine being stuck with 72 women all looking to you for everything. First off, they are women. That means there is no way that they will all be happy at the same time, so you're always going to has a crowd of them bitching at you about something. Then to make things worse, the sex would be horrible too. Can you imagine having them bleeding and complaining how much it hurts everytime you do it, not to mention the total lack of experience. Then there is the whole jealousy thing that has got to looming over everything.
If you want to get my attention, promise me 72 whores. I know that they are up for anything, they know what they're doing, there is no real jealousy because they don't develop feelings for you and they know how to take care of themselves.
Great job!
@ Tatjana: I know...I know exactly what you mean, and it's completely disillusioning to see the cruelty man is capable of inflicting on another being - for a cause, a religion, even out of love at times. I sometimes marvel at the case of mothers who kill their own children as they commit suicide themselves because they feel they're protecting them in some way!
Human nature... it never ceases to amaze me... though, to tell you the truth, it's more often tears I shed at the things I see around me. But strangely enough, coming face to face with suffering only strengthens me, and all I ever want to do is to somehow do something to change it. It's like everything falls into perspective - that right there before me are lives who need love and here in my heart I have the capacity to give. So, how can our lives be meaningless when there are just SO many ways to make a difference? I realized this in the years I spent in south asia, where there is such extreme poverty it can leave you stricken for days just seeing it. I knew then, that I couldn't give up on life... and i suppose this need flows through my words too.
Sorry, for getting carried away... but I just want you to know I understand where you're coming from. Btw. you write ...and this too is such a strong way to reach out. Take care, always xx
@ cally: Oh, now isn't it just great to see you're still around! How's life going with you? Are you teaching still? I imagine how inspirational your classes must be... :) lol... as for my second masters, well the first one was in english literature but now years later, becoming a mother myself, I realize what I really want is to work with children, esp. mentally disbaled ones. So, now, here I am pursuing a psychology degree... just so one can be trained enough to help with more than just money or a few hours of voluntary work. Not saying, that's not great in itself, but I long for much more. Hmm... yet to see, if it turns me into a witch instead! ;) Anyway, thank you so much for always finding the time to drop by and comment. Much appreciated, much love x
@ Rod Marsden: No, thank YOU for that insightful comment. History is full of such horrific stories, isn't it.... some of the ones in Iraq war and the torture used as a 'weapon' still haunt me, not to mention the ones about rape and brutal killings in parts of africa (the other day I watched a documentary on Sudan, and the horrors of war there and I couldn't get the images out of mind for days!) Makes you feel helpless, especially when there are children involved. Anyway, thank you for reading and your great comment. Take care :)
@ NU: LOL!! trust you to see it from the most unique perspective and expressing it so perfectly on top! Yes, I know, I was waiting for someone to comment on the '72 virgins' and here we are! You forget that apart from children, most suicide bombers are in their teens or early 20's, virgins and completely inexperienced themselves. Hence, what do they know the difference between a virgin or a prostitute? I mean, I would imagine just the mere sight of a naked woman would be enough for these starved kids, and 72 of them just might be their idea of heaven!
Btw. didn't I tell you that while a muslim man will be rewarded with heaven, a muslim woman is supposed to be presented with her husband as prize! Now...talk about discrimination...!
MOW, there are probably only a few on HubPages whose work affects me on an emotional level, but you writing also elicits an emotional response. I feel so much for the children you describe, giving their lives for a cause they cannot hope to fathom. The idea that life can mean so little that children are pawns is sick and abhorrent, and it hurts to recognize the innocence that was lost forever through such cruelty.
Ignoring the cruelty of this for the moment, there are abstract costs as well. Using a child as a tool for destruction ignores their potential. What if one of these kids, allowed to grow up, someday found a cure for cancer? What if they became religious or political figures that led to a cultural renaissance? Whatever potential they held is lost, sacrificed in order to kill a few people in a crowded street. It is so sad.
I hate to believe that I am silly and naive in hoping for a better world, and that war, torture and suffering is the way of things--but perhaps I am. I cannot look at a child and only see a weapon, however. I just can't. I see hope for the future. Perhaps I am naive.
MOW, your work and your insights are so very thought-provoking and important. Every word you write shows how much you care.
Thank you.
Mike
You always get into the heart of a subject, but as I read your article I could see that this is only a drop in the ocean. This is such a huge subject and I am sure you will write more. You go to see the places and people who need help and that is evident from your writing. We need people like you who care and have the courage to go to where those are who are crying out. The more people who alert us to these things the earlier they can be helped.
It is obvious, too, from what you write that terrorists are not true Muslims. Islam does not teach any of the things that they proclaim. I am not an Islamic scholar, but I have read the Koran a couple of times and learned quite a lot about Islam and there is nothing there that matches what these people say.
As we know from history, everything changes and passes away to bring something new. I hope and pray that we get rid of the scourge of terrorism and put something better in its place. If enough people want it, it could happen.
I look forward to more of your work. Take care and remain safe whenever you go on your travels.
myownworld...These has been the tactics for ages,i mean the FARC in Columbia used the same tactics and it is still going on, it happened in Sierra Lone, Liberia and right now in the DRC.It is justified to those who do it,child soldier-child suicide bombers.
The perpetrators pays off women to give birth to a child or children and like you said above;
"Above all, these vulnerable children, too young to understand, emotionally or physically bruised are the ideal material for molding into shape… to be used as fuel for their own funeral pyre!"
Great hub and thanks for coming up with this wonderful menace which has trapped mankind and left me asking this all the time WHO IS ARMING WHO?
@ Mike: coming from a writer and person I respect so much, I'm deeply moved by your comment. The one thing in this world I feel MOST strongly about is children, and that is why like you, I find it just sickening to see people use them as tools for their political and religious motivations. And yes, as you so rightly point out, it's a waste of all the 'good' these children could have achieved in society, if only their parents had given them the chance! Yet, one must not forget, a lot of these child bombers are already orphans and victims of war... and that half their chances for a normal life have already been compromised.
You are not naive Mike... being sensitive to human suffering and yet not letting it harden our hearts is what makes for wonderful people, and I cannot appreciate enough those who retain hope within them, yet face reality for what it is. People like you i.e. Thank you - for all your words and insights. :)
@ Humming: Beautiful words as always. Thank you for them. You see, I was born and raised as a muslim myself, so I'm deeply familiar with the mind set of orthodox muslims and how they use Koranic text to justify many of their intolerant ways. What they forget is that the entire essence of Islam as a religion of peace has been lost on them... and that many of these verses have been taken out of context, and in fact, are inapplicable to modern day societies. But then, that is unfortunately one of the things with the Koran: that it can be easily misinterpreted, and those who follow it to the letter (and not grasp it's deeper meaning) can turn it into the most basic and hard of all religions.
Btw. do you know that even the arabic word for the 'virgins' offered as reward in heaven is debatable, and that some scholars claim that it's meant as a reference to 'grapes' and not women at all! Who knows...! My only concern is the lives punished and sacrificed in the name of so called Islam... and as you say, I wish we could do more to help!
Take care friend, were these hubs ever to be read by orthodox muslims, trust me it could easily mean a 'fatwa' against me in an orthodox muslims court - but you know me, I'm fearless when it comes to such matters! So, just get well and together we'll go visit Pakistan one day...! x
@ Ross, nice to see you here, hope you and your family are well? Thank you for the great comment and yes, i agree, this is not the first time children have been used as 'weapons' in wars. I know Columbia has a very difficult history too. It's hard to imagine what low depths man is capable of sinking, esp. for power - religious & political! Maybe, one day... yes, one day... we'll be able to find some peace for everyone; hope lives within me, as it does in you, i know. Take care, always x
Actually, grapes to go with the flowing milk and honey would be more believable.
Thank you for your words, and who knows, we may travel together one day?
Take care.
lol @ humming! yes, you never know with life... ! Look after yourself... and never stop writing... I know you have it in you.. :)
MOW, once again your work draws deeply on the emotions. Sadness, anger, disbelief, fear, they all come rushing in. Don't ever stop writing things as you feel them.
Taking the great religious beliefs and twisting them to justify their own hunger for revenge, riches, or power has always been a tool of those who seek such things. It's always terrible to see that happen in wars of any kind, but to children - heart wrenching!
How great to hear from you Duchess! And thank you for the wonderful comment. So much hatred and bloodshed in the name of religion yes, and it seems no lessons are learnt from history! I find it amazing that man has made so much progress in the field of science, technology etc, and yet his primal instinct to aggression is still being channelized into wars. Anyway, thank you taking the time to read and comment. Much love x
It is a sad fact of life that twisted adults use children to satisfy their own twisted agendas. Until every man, woman and child is free, educated and informed these injustices will continue.
Another great hub Myownworld.
Thanks for info. I do not see any reason to change images just to please once's opinion.
Dear myownworld, you are an amazing writer. Your understanding of people's psychology is very deep and you take your readers to the journey with you so easily. I was completely embraced by your way of writing. Just amazing.
Also, you touched a very burning topic, which so many people try to avoid. Those people close their eyes to the reality and refuse to see deep into the problem.
The pictures are all real, no doubt. Probably, it would be very convenient for many to distract readers' attention and to take them away from the topic by doubting the authenticity of the pictures.
I used these pictures (and more) in my hub about the same problem, but your hub is so much better and deeper than mine..
Also, since I am an Israelite, my hub was taken mostly negatively. But I watch real TV programs from Gaza and in many of them you can see kindergarten kids, little innocent toddlers, sitting in a circle, clapping their hands and singing together with their teacher, "death to Jews, death to Americans". Sad, sad, sad.
No excuse. No justification. Brainwashing not only their own generation, but the whole world.
Great hub, amazing.
MYO I gotta lump in my throat on this one. As usual you have delivered on another fine piece of work. And as usual I seem to have an emotional response. The picture of that tiny little girl to me was just heartbreaking. You are completely ruining my quasi tough guy I sometimes like to think I am !
I always wonder what the 72 virgins did in life to deserve this kind of afterlife! On a more serious note it beggars belief that anyone can use innocent children in this way, especially in the name of religion. If the cause is so righteous and glorious, why don't the people behind planning the bombings sacrifice their own lives! I thought that religion was supposed to be about love and peace, and I have never worked out how blowing people up achieves that? Violence just breeds more violence, and someone somewhere needs to draw the line in the sand and say enough is enough.
Love, security and acceptance exist as needs within every soul. A child failing to find these nurturing desires fulfilled will in desperation turn to even the perverted version offered by disingenuous and cruel man. As sad as a child’s death is to me, I cannot but grieve more for the fact that men, once children, can become so hardened by hate and violent fervour that they would perpetuate their own unfulfilled need upon another innocent child. Such thoughts are too sad for me. Great hub, as usual.
@ John B: Exactly, ignorance and lack of education has more to do with it than we imagine - and one cannot even imagine the very basic level some of these people are living at - easy target for dangerous minds to exploit! Thank you for reading and commenting. Take care :)
@ Vladimir: Its alright, Para is just someone I deeply respect, hence the consideration. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. Much appreciated.
@ TD: Thank you for becoming a fan and for all your wonderful words... they have meant a lot. Yes, the images are just the props actually, though I have no reason to doubt their authenticity either. In any case, its the text that I put all my research (and my heart) into and I would not want anything to detract my readers from it. Without getting into the Palestine-Israel debate, I just want to add that whatever side of the border one stands, or whatever name one gives to the enemy, ordinary human lives are being lost every day and I wonder if there will ever be an end to this hatred. I doubt it. Take care, its a pleasure meeting you and I will soon find time to read your hub too. :)
@ tony: ah, one of my favorite people here...! How are you old pal? Oh, you are a softy at heart alright, we all know it, so stop trying to convince us otherwise! But on a serious note, I know what you mean.... I had tears throughout my eyes as I wrote this hub... but it is such a sad reality, I wonder how anyone can stay detached? Lots of love x
@ CMH: Thank you for your amazing comment, and I agree completely. I was just reading about of the latest suicide attacks in afghanistan, and they say the boy was not more than 19, half drugged and from a very poor back ground. Usually, the families are heavily compensated, but can you imagine trading your child for - blood money - is all I can call it? But I have talked to some of these people...and they are just too ignorant, poor and numbed by years of war to even comprehend your point of view! (Sigh) Thank you again for commenting.
@ parrster: Your words convey my thoughts far more eloquently than I could have voiced them, but then coming from a writer like you, its to be expected. I agree...I have the very same question at the back of my mind always before I can raise the finger of blame at anyone... and i.e: all these men were children once too...so where exactly did it go wrong? Thank you for finding the time to read and comment. Take care :)
Man I am speechless, you always leave me at loss of words. Another powerful hub and you have done justice to another sensitive subject. You have put light to the way how twisted the life is. Kids are the purest at heart and they should not be part of the power game, period.
I do not know what else can I add to the great narrative hub and the valuable comments that already exist.
Can I just say I love you and your writing once again.
Thank you for your kindness.
I just wanted to add that behind every lost life of a suicide bomber there are tens (or hundreds and even thousands) of lost lives of their victims. With this perspective the problem that you so powerfully described in your hub stands out even harder.
This is a very sad truth, still, I see Christians in America also teaching hatred in the name of God. I hope there is an afterlife, but I'm not willing to die one moment sooner than I have to in order to be sure or find out. God and dreams of heaven or used too much to control people, and this is just one more sad example. Hated it that I couldn't watch the video in my country. (:v
@ CJ: you don't have to say anything, just seeing you is enough to make me smile :) How warm your words are, as always, how they make me wish we could meet for coffee and a girlie talk and laugh. I think we'd get on very well. Anyway, I'm just so grateful for all the wonderful readers I have... truly so. Take care and never change... xx
@ TD: It's been my pleasure entirely. And yes, I agree... NOTHING can compare to the suffering and destruction suicide bombers cause even in that last moment they breathe; pain breeds only more pain. Take care :)
@ valerie: Am honored to have you read and comment here. I suppose, in many ways organized religion is an age-old tool that those in power have used to manipulate and control the weak and ignorant. And it seems, there will always be newer victims and a 'cause' that someone somewhere will consider worth dying for. Or bleeding another life for. Sad, yes. Much love :)
myownworld, I read this last night but it was really late and I was too tired to comment. Thinking about those poor little children being prepared for such a horrific task has almost left me speechless. It seems almost unimaginable that any parent could 'sell' their child for such a fate, whether uneducated or devastatingly poor or whatever. All children are born beautiful and innocent, and open to the world, and to think that some end up like this is so deeply heartbreaking. I remember holding my own babies when they were born and looking down at them, and thinking all I want is for them to have a wonderful life and to protect them from everything. But I think it only shows how strong the power of brainwashing must be..not only for the children but for the adults who allow it to happen. And I guess that if you grow up only being force fed one set of ideas, with no other input, then that is your reality and you just can't see beyond it. It's alarming, though, that such strong feelings of hatred exist anywhere, and in the name of 'religion' as well. Where did it all come from? I read an article once, an interview of a suicide bomber's wife, he was dead and she was left with his young child, and she seemed so proud of what he had done. What is that child going to think about the world, growing up?
Anyway, your writing is incredible as always, you always reach right into the heart of a subject. But then, it's not just about the writing but the fact that you educate people and show them more than they knew before. And at the end of the day, knowledge, and love for other people, moves the world forwards, so don't ever stop. Take care x
MOW, what you write and the way you render your hubs has always amazed me to make me literally think ‘can somebody actually write something like that’…I discover so much about human psychology and your thought process every time I read something you have posted…I also read other hubs written by other writers, but I land up comparing them with yours and never have come across anything better (with all due respect to the other writers)…Congratulations to you again for such a wonderful post…
Commenting about the topic of the article and all the comments passed on it, it makes me feel so sad that Islam and Muslims have always been portrayed in such evil and hideous ways that the general understanding of the population is always pessimistic and negative…as I read all the comments written above, I realized that all the writers are directly or indirectly attacking the philosophy of Islam in some way or the other… you may differ from my understanding, but that’s my point of view…no one thinks as to what makes someone take such extreme steps in life that you either prepare someone or yourself for death with consent, what were the circumstances a person or a child went through before he was put under this position of his…what trauma or ordeal has he faced in life even if he is a five year old child…all these people who feel sorry for the children who are unnecessarily sacrificed in the name of God, religion, family, honor etc do not know that they have nothing else to lose as they have already lost everything they had in life…thanks to the kills of their families and loved ones perpetrated by the western world…nobody stops and asks, why are they doing and taking such intense steps…because of whom has life turned so ugly for these beautiful and pure hearted children…we are only aware of and believe in facts which that media wants us to know which is so very biased in its attitude that I strongly agree to the fact that they are the biggest evil and the worst of culprits in the modern world…the media shows that a child blew himself and killed a couple of people, they don’t show the blast which took place right in front of him which shattered his house into fragments along with all his family members who were the only people he had in the entire world… Hope I have not gone overboard with all this…but, by writing all what I have mentioned above, ‘I DO NOT’ even for an instance support the suicide bombers in any form or for any reasons as it is absolutely against Islam, I condemn them all…
Keep writing always, coz expecting and attempting to make the world a better place itself means that we are half way through our goal of achieving it…and I do think you are right about the ‘Fatwa’ part…lol…
@ Polly, thank you for your beautiful words. Circumstances have a way of making ordinary human beings commit the lowest, most depraved acts... and yet, YET without justifying OR condemning them, I think the least we can do is to try to understand what motivated them in the first place. And very often, it's pain... that someone else inflicted on them.
And yet, we all at some point or the other have been hurt, but we move on and don't punish half the world for it! But most suicide bombers - and their parents don't come from 'normal' homes as you and I know them: poverty, years of wars, personal loss of loved ones or homes, as well as lack of education plays a very important influence too. And none of these bombers are made overnight either: its a process stretched over generations - one that most bombers never get a chance to question, simply because they don't get to live long enough to! A very complicated chain... that wars create and then worsen.
But I strongly believe a lot of the responsibility lies with parents: Being a mother myself - like you - I know how easy it is to mold a child into any way of thinking we want. At least, till a certain age. But I'm afraid to say, the minds of suicide bombers are not only corrupted with hatred too early in life, but years of further exposure to war only fires it. It is war - not it's by products that are to blame actually.
I guess one could just go on analyzing this issue, and still they'd be no end to it! Take care and thank you once again for the encouragement and love. Deeply appreciated. x
@ Magic: Jamsheed, thank you for such generous and kind praise... you overwhelm me with your words sometimes. Also, trust me, there are lots of wonderful writers here, just takes time to discover them (actually, try any of the ones who commented above, and you wont be disappointed!)
I understand the point you're trying to make about muslims, but just as all muslims are not terrorists, in the same way, all the 'west' isn't there to judge us either. If anything, most people here are struggling to understand such a complicated religion that is so easily subject to misinterpretation. Also, in many ways, it's the muslims themselves who are to blame for the way people see them today, more so because 'moderates' don't speak out as often - and if they do, they're immediately condemned by their very own people.
Jokes apart, my case and the 'fatwa' is a prime example: I question things about Islam, as I do about war - but while I've found plenty of westerners agreeing with me about the injustice of war, I have hardly had any muslims brave enough to face their own weaknesses (though they make sure they email me condemning/judging me etc!).
Never mind, the point Im trying to make here is that western governments need to put an end to wars and find another way of dealing with extremist muslims - what that is, I don't know, but I DO know war isn't it. But muslims need to curb extremism too and our very own people need to rise against it. I have with my own eyes seen a once moderate country like Pakistan being wrecked by Taliban - though the average man in the street is resisting their influence, hence their failure to turn it into another afghanistan. Net result: every day you hear about suicide bombers taking civilian lives - manipulated by agencies with their own political agenda of course! While everywhere... in the the west, in muslims countries themselves... the average man is suffering and paying the price.
With time, however, I'm beginning to think there will never be an end to war and bloodshed... and religion will always be used for it. If not Islam, Christianity, If not that, then some other one! History repeating itself... with variations here and there. Sending love and peace your way... thank you for your kindness :)
MOW this is easily one of your most heart wrenching hub. Just imagine, kids who dont even know to distinguish between right or wrong and they are pushed into it. Even God up there must be wodering at His own creations. I know for certain Islam never preaches violence. But its for some pple that the whole community suffers. My heart goes for these kids and I thank God for showering HIS blessings on me. Keep up the good work
.... and I always smile with warmth when I hear from you jay! Thank you always for finding time to read and comment on my hubs. I truly appreciate it. Take care, always x
Islam is rahmatan lil alamin or a religion which brings peace for all mankind, so this religion will never approve the implementation of violence including bombing and terrorism. I'm one of those who condemn the misleading of Islam thoughts.
A brilliantly written and haunting expose of a nightmare beyond comprehension. There will never peace in this world until those that seek to destroy us decide to love their children more than they hate us. I give this a very big thumbs up.
Certainly, virtually any suicide bomber (young or old) is cause for dismay. When will we ever realise that winning arguments is about persuasion - not violence?
@ agusfanani: I agree, this is no Islam - at least the true essence of islam has certainly been lost on suicide bombers. They are more like props used for a political agenda and religion is just being exploited to further that purpose. Thank you for your comment and for stopping by. Take care :)
@ bp: Thank you for your great comment and for becoming a fan. Much appreciated.
@ culture: Well said. Thank you for reading :)
this is nice insight on the issue ..the concept of 'so called' heaven or revenge is dangerous concept ..kids are always vulnerable and what kind of world these fanatic terrorist are trying to create... i feel sorry for these kids..
Thank you pisean for reading and commenting. I couldn't agree more. Nice to see you btw :)
I’m a little shocked, having not heard of child suicide bombers before, but not really surprised that they exist. Very little surprises me anymore regarding just how low we can sink as humans.
If I could make one wish come true for these poor misled children it would be that their heaven does indeed exist, and that after enduring such horrors in this world they get more than their fair share of virgins, milk, and exotic fruits in the next one, or whatever it is that they’d truly desire, just to be loved perhaps?
Let’s hope that one day we learn. Although I remain doubtful.
Excellent article, humane and beautifully written. Thanks for sharing, MyOwnWorld.
Hello, Myownworld: I am so moved by this account of the deleterious life of small children such as these for the purposes of fighting a war, while as you - so poignantly put it - the top guys avoid the "dirty" work of doing it themselves. These children could almost be proxy soldiers in a way.
There is one thing more sad than these kids fighting this war - and that is the sad fact that there has to be any war or conflict at all. Why? My heart goes out to these kids. Their lives are ending before they even begin, when they are about to go out and experience the real purpose of life, not shorten it for the sake of an argument.
Wonderful Hub as always, my friend. You are a superb writer. Best wishes as always from me.
Cassy.
Thank you for the wonderful comment Mrv. I'm glad someone doesn't begrudge these lost souls their little heaven... and I hope too, if only for their sake, that they find some comfort at last... denied them in this world. That is, if there exists another one!
You know, like you, nothing shocks me any more about human nature... and yet, just when I think I've finally 'toughened' up in life, sadness at the suffering of others slips in between the gaps and leaves one hurting again. And it's mostly helplessness I feel... like wanting to reach out and make it ok for the other.... and yet being unable to. I guess, the pain of this just seeps into my words.
Take care, and hey, less commercial and more creative! I read your stalker hub btw, but since I was guilty too, just gulped and quietly sneaked away... ;)
Ah Cheeky (can I still call you that?).. great to see you my friend and thank you for the kind and insightful comment. Yes, it's war that I blame, though those who perpetuate it will always find reasons it justify it, so there will never be peace... or an end to this cruelty. These days I'm researching for a hub on africa, and some of the atrocities I'm reading about fill me with such horror! I swear I'll never stop valuing the 'normalcy' of my life anymore...
Anyway, hope you do well, and thanks once again for stopping by... much love x
Wonderful hub, I'm a big fan of your writing. Its very very sad and as someone with Pakistani origin I can relate to the brainwashing that goes on with these poor helpless children.
Its good to know that your research has produced an unbiased account and more to the point, a true reflection to the world as to what is really happening, something that does not get seen much in the media.
How do you suggest that this can be changed for the better so these lovely young children become something good and not suicide bombers?
Zaheer
"In theory, indoctrination is a simple process" and yet....you just know, the hell they go through, having thier dreams wiped clean, replaced with a twised version of reality, all in the name of GOD. Thank you MOW, for speaking up.
@ nettech: To tell you the truth, I long for my words to reach people who have directly experienced or been affected by the things I write about, because I know they are the best judge of my work in a way. Besides, each time I sit down to write, I ask myself what it must feel like to be that person....and I realize this way you can never judge anyone anymore; only grasp at the reasons they do what they do. Crazy, no? And by that Im trying to convey that I have no solutions - sometimes, I think they aren't any - I'm only trying to understand.
What is the answer to suicide bombings? Simply put: an end to war. How does one do that? No one knows, and those who think they do are making an even bigger mess of the situation. All I know is I want to protect and help the civilians caught in the middle - give voice to them. Except, even that won't make any difference to their real lives or real suffering. Still, hope never dies within....
Anyway, thank you for your kind words. I really appreciate them :)
@ DM: Just happy to see you... no words needed. Hope you're hanging in there... and will come back soon and write it all down. Your 'voice' is your greatest strength. Take care xx
It is being written, line by line, bit by bit, inch by inch, even if it is all in my head.... it will be out one day. You take care too.
x
ah... our minds... within them we roam free... who could ever chain our thoughts there? ;)
My Own World,
You have done it once again. Graphic, grueling and brutally honest. You have drawn us into the reality of the lost twisted world of what once was, pure innocence.
I had a really hard time reading this one to the end. It touched me on so many levels. Although, in no way can I compare to the depth of psychological twisting and heart wrenching emotional deep seated wounds of these innocent children.
I can say I understand the brainwashing completely and after many years of therapy I am just beginning to touch the underlying hidden meanings of the twisted love that I experienced as a child.
Children live what they learn and this is all they will ever know. Like you say they are born to die. Their destiny has been chosen for them.
And from the eyes and heart of the child I feel deeply. For myself as a child, death was a release. I yearned for it. I saw no future. I was obsessed with suicidal thoughts, it brought peace and understanding. To me it meant one thing, to be free from the pain. I, not like them, got a second chance at life and chose to live.
Robbed of their choices, robbed of their innocence and robbed of life. They are "Born to die".
Your writing serves as a memorial honoring the voices of the innocent children that have and will be robbed of their lives. I only wish it could stop it. It breaks my heart to know that as I sit hear reading this many more lives will be taken.
I admire the strength of your voice. You are truly a gift to all the children of the world. Please keep writing.
You have a way of bringing something so horrific to the forefront. You encapsulate your readers, like hostages, wreaking havoc with their psyche drawing your readers into the life of the victims. No one can stop reading, regardless how painful or horrific. No one can walk away freely.
After reading, one is sure to gain a greater understanding into the depth of the destruction of innocence; the twisted love/brainwashing techniques and the moment to moment brutality of what these children encounter on a daily basis.
From the hearts of the children, thanks for giving us a voice,
Sage
@ Sage: What can I say to words as beautiful as yours? I'm grateful and deeply moved and at the same time I feel you through your words. You're a sensitive and courageous person... and I hope you stay strong always. Thank you for your wonderful comment..... I cannot do justice to it, but I hope you know how deeply felt my gratitude is. I hope our prayers reach these children... and am sending a very special one your way too. xx
look the first pic..& the second cute babyies eyes ...they are dress up like terrorist..wat the hell is this ! putting terror in those small innocent minds..There should be limit of stupidity and foolishness ,they crossed all the limits..disgusting
check this
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/afg
this kid says by killing them and dieng for religion he will be going straight to heaven, with 70 virgin girls ..WTF lol
How they have been brainwashed.
Cruel, isn't it? To see the beauty all around us - the beautiful blue sky, the green grass and so many other beautiful things, yet we have people who find it justifiable to walk amongst all this beauty and blow themselves up!!
I can't think of something more tragic than that. To picture innocents going about their daily chores - women, little kids and babies, men doing their jobs to provide for their families - a BANG - and life's changed!! What was the fault of those poor innocents??
Would life be ever the same for the loved ones of those who fell victim to this mindless act? Would life be the same for those tens and hundreds who got maimed and disabled for no fault of theirs? How cruel can this act be? It is mindless!! It is beyond logic!!
How can a sensible parent expose their child to this? How can this be defined as martyrdom - I do not know and cannot fathom!! Nothing IMHO can justify a sucide bombing, nothing!
I wrote a hub about the "myth of the poor terrorist," a while back. Most of the terrorist masterminds aren't poor - they are well-to-do and educated!! The poor become the pawns of the rich terrorists/organizations. They buy them off - these volunteers (at least most of them), the rest are brainwashed into thinking they are fighting a 'holy' war.
It is a sad reality of our times. I wish things could get better, but alas one can only see it get worse, much worse!!
Very chilling photos and information. I didn't know children were bought or kidnapped to become suicide bombers or as some call them homicide bombers. Thank you for this info, even though it's quite disturbing.
@ Hi: Thank you for reading and all your comments. The link only affirms this sad reality.
@ Shil: Thank you for your insightful comment. You have echoed my sentiments and thoughts exactly. I'm quite keen to read your hub on this issue too, for you're spot on in your analysis. Yes, this is just one of those things in life one feels powerless to stop... and yet, it's harsh reality never ceases to sadden me.
I wish sometimes we could change things just by the sheer force of our will... that by wanting something bad enough, we could simply make it happen... I swear, wars and all human suffering is the first thing I'd put an end to! Take care my friend... x
@ Cari: Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. Much appreciated :)
This is amazing revelation! I wonder where you get and compile all your information. Pls keep in touch with me.May God bless you
Ty "Myownworld" for making the world slightly more aware.
Pls read my "Hub:" http://hubpages.com/hub/qwark63 It also makes the point as yours does. I wrote it months ago.
Our world is insane.
Qwark
@ Segun: Thank you for your words. Well, I've lived in south asia for many years so I have a close association with that region, as well as a first hand knowledge of some of the issues I write about. I was only last year visiting Pakistan, and talked to many people and closely studied them, before penning down my experiences. Anyway, thank you for reading and becoming a fan. :)
@ qwark: Oh, I'd love to read your hub, so thank you for letting me know. Nice to see a writer I admire so much here, take care :)
I feel sorry for these kids...brainwashed at such young age.But it is also true as long as terrorism exists this is going to continue.My heart goes out these children.
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@ Uma, thank you so much for reading and commenting. This is such a horrible reality that each time I think of it, I'm left wishing we could do more to change it. Alas! Take care.. :)
Hey, MOW...thanks for your post earlier. Yeah, children born into such a situation like that is difficult to comprehend. I remember recess breaks and candy bars were my 'dilemmas' growing up. Killing shouldn't be in a child's vocabulary, much less suicide bombing for a cause you don't even understand! Profound, MOW...very nice
@ drej: well said. I agree...sometimes, I think there is nothing in this world more wonderful than a normal childhood and I wish everyone could know it. Anyway, nice to see you old pal, hope the 'drill machine' challenge goes well... ;)
Hello MOW
Thank You for creating a form of awareness as to 'for the love of' and what those children are so proud to do for their country and parents approval. Any child only wants validation, and the more Americans that poor child takes with them, the better the afterlife is promised to be.
I see no difference to what we do here in North America. I mean the inner city or 'ghetto' places, that each city has, are left alone. Mostly because no one believes there can be change and it has become my cause. For children to live with much less sounds of guns. Their parents promote handguns their children to carry, Most die before 15, shot from a drug deal, often for their mother needing crack, gang wars pimping by 15, street disputes. These children will come home proud on how a thug that threatened him, got caped and a few others by accident from misfires or bad aim.
The police stay away as much as possible and each generation is only tough and enforces violence because that's what they were taught.
We could argue it's different because gangsters aren't on a mission to take out many people for a religious cause, so suicide and bombs together on children is much different, willing to die for their own. Or is it?
As usual such a wonderful complete subject matter that the world must keep seeing. Then again, who are we to enforce our beliefs on them? I know how sick that sounds, but their afterlife depends completely on their actions.
Death is the ultimate gift, and as you know, how they die differs on those actions. So sadly we know it will never ever change and many people in many places will die for their cause. I certainly hope they find what they seek by their death and taking ours
Love Ya
A really serious hub.Good spots presicelly.
@ Kim: Nice to see you here and yes, I know what you mean. Children suffering anywhere and being exploited with or without a cause is just beyond me... and I wish we could do more to put an end to this suffering. Yesterday, I saw how a woman was caught on t.v. binning a cat! Imagine that! No end to how cruel human beings can be... and yet how capable of greatness too! Thank you for stopping by... and take care x
gus: thank you for reading :)
Your hub is extremely important, not only because some of your commenters admit to being unaware of this awful tragedy, but because your heart for the subject and your ability to put it out there for there rest of us to learn from is stellar. I was thankful to see that you had so many comments. Keep writing dear girl! Your work is invaluable. The rest of us can "try" to point out the problem, but writers like you do the job. Your courage is commendable. I will pray for your safety. Looking forward to reading more of your work.
@ RTalloni: Thank you for your kind and warm words.... they're truly appreciated, esp. coming from someone I respect as much. Take care, always :)
I think everyone was touched by this hub as shown by so many comments. Most has been said already but this is the saddest thing to read about. You did a really nice job putting this piece together. Very informative and makes you really think about all the ways we are all brainwashed here in America too. Up and Awesome
Thank you Minnetonka for reading and appreciating this. Brainwashing must be as old as time itself, the ideal tool for the powerful to exploit the weak, gullible masses - almost like repeating something over and over again till it becomes the only truth you know. Sad, I know.
Hi MOW, it is sad when this happens to children, their life is ruined, indoctrination is removing the potential to examine life and live it in fullest. My dream like yours is a world where children are at peace and happy!
Thank you again for wonderful piece here.
Take care,
Maita
Hello dearest Maita, so great to see you! Thank you for your kind words... and for sharing the dream of happiness for children everywhere. Hope shines in your smile alone. All my love, xx
Oh my goodness, those pix of the children break my heart. I just can't imagine, I think that's why the information you share is so crucial. The problems I have are just problems of luxury in comparison.
What a world...
Wow, don't know how I missed this one MOW! As usual your words encourage me to take on another view of the world; sitting on the edge of my chair enlightened and more knowledgeable from your hub; and near spleechless on the subject matter that I've read. All the signs of a brilliant writer. :)
If you were a writer of fiction then this would have been such a thrilling masterpiece. Hopefully, all will see it as a masterpiece based on harsh reality which should make people shed tears and think of ways to improve the world in which we live. Thanks for sharing your insight my dear friend. Take care! :)
Very well presented and heart felt.
This again shows your beautiful heart. God bless My Own world!
Mow,
I LIKEN TERRORISM AND CHILD BOMBERS TO ARISTOTLES ALLEGORY OF THE CAVE0 IF SOME ONE GROWS UP SHACKLED TO A WALL ITH ONLY SHADOWS ON A WALLTHEN, THAT UIS WHAT THEY BELIEVE THE WORLD TO BE- oOPS SORRY!!1 I did not mean to shout forgive my error and sloth to change it-
as i was saying if that life is all they know- then- that cave is reality to them- as such suicide bombers that is the life they know- It is not fair indeedbut until the totalitarian states they live in changes there is not much that can be done by outsiders beyond regime change and the hope of democracy spreading or escape..
great hub you are indeed a talented writer especially compared to th hubs i belch forth- i admire you you hubbs have depth and meaning within the world we live in. you have my respect whatever that may be worth...
good day-
TH
Nice hub, maybe someday you or someone will do a hub on why these people resort to this kind of mentality. It is so easy to blame others but no one ever stops to think why these people are so adamant on killing themselves and others with whom they have grudges. I wonder what people in the UK or the USA would do if they were invaded by Russia and kept in open air prisons for some 60yrs generation after generation growing up with nothing but hatred bestowed on them by the so called civilized society. Why do you think the IRA took up arms against the UK, why do you think the Americans took up arms against the British Empire to establish USA, Life is simple for many of us who wake up in our nice comfy beds,those people wake up to death and subjugation. All the best
This hub leaves me speechless.
Hi, I have just visited your hub and the info you have covered has been of great interest to me.
War is a terrible terrible thing, they are so lost!
Of course it is a terrible thing... I would never justify using a child as a pawn in such a game, and yet when you're in a situation that is so off-balanced as to have rocks for weapons against tanks, it's not exactly a surprise that such tactics are used.
Not everyone has the luxury to fight their war from the sky with an American-made jet. Where technological supremacy exists to this degree, a need for defense and revenge both can become twisted into a justification for striking at the enemy with the only tools you have available, including suicide bombers. I don't condone it, but I do understand it.
Wow. Incredibly interesting. Thanks for sharing.
Well stated. I was doing research on the topic because I am helping some friends at the JF and are hosting a speaker, Brooke Goldstein, who wrote and produced the film "Making of a Martyr" that brings to life the use of children as martyrs. I am putting the Invitations together for the event and wished I had a powerful image to help get the importance of this topic out there. I was wondering if you could give me permission to use an image from your blog.
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War is a terrible thing, and seemingly natural to us humans. If there must be war, fine. I just don't agree with sending "children" to their deaths as instruments of destruction.